The following pins are straight through connections:
PCMCIA..CF......IDE...Signal Name
30------21------17....D0
31------22------15....D1
32------23------13....D2
2-------2-------11....D3
3-------3-------9.....D4
4-------4-------7.....D5
5-------5-------5.....D6
6-------6-------3.....D7
64------47------4.....D8
65------48------6.....D9
66------49------8.....D10
37------27------10....D11
38------28------12....D12
39------29------14....D13
40------30------16....D14
41------31------18....D15
29------20------35....A0
28------19------33....A1
27------18------36....A2
16------37------31....INTRQ
33------24------32....-IOCS16
44------34------25....-IORD
45------35------23....-IOWR
58------41------1.....-RESET
59------42------27....IORDY
62------45------39....DASP
63------46------34....-PDIAG
7-------7-------37....-CE1 select 0x1Fx
42------32------38....-CE2 select 0x3Fx

The following pins should be connected to power, ground or not at all:
PCMCIA..CF......IDE...Signal Name..connect to
26------17------xx....A3...........=GND
25------16------xx....A4...........=GND
24------15------xx....A5...........=GND
23------14------xx....A6...........=GND
22------12------xx....A7...........=GND
12------11------xx....A8...........=GND
11------10------xx....A9...........=GND
8-------8-------xx....A10..........=GND
1-------1-------xx....Power GND....=GND
34------xx------xx....Power GND....=GND
35------xx------xx....Power GND....=GND
68------50------xx....Power GND....=GND
17------13------xx....Power VCC....=VCC
51------38------xx....Power VCC....=VCC
9-------9-------xx....-OE..........=GND->selects "True-IDE"
15------36------xx....-WE..........=VCC
61------44------xx....-REG.........=VCC
56------39------xx....-CSEL........=GND->master/=n.c.->slave
36------26------xx....-CD1.........=not connected
67------25------xx....-CD2.........=not connected
43------33------xx....-VS1.........=not connected
57------40------xx....-VS2.........=not connected
60------43------xx....-INPACK......=not connected
xx------xx------2.....GND..........=GND
xx------xx------19....GND..........=GND
xx------xx------22....GND..........=GND
xx------xx------24....GND..........=GND
xx------xx------26....GND..........=GND
xx------xx------30....GND..........=GND
xx------xx------40....GND..........=GND
xx------xx------20....KEY..........=missing pin in IDE connector
xx------xx------21....DMAREQ.......=not connected
xx------xx------28....SPSYNC.......=not connected
xx------xx------29....DMACK........=not connected